Thursday, May 14, 2009

WHO CARES!!!

Why do we care for people?

Is it really our inner concern that we show or just a role we enact… a play, to show care?
It is a worrying situation if someone shows so much concern for you. And again, you get worried if nobody cares for you! God made men…. And then he made women!
He gave both of them a heart and a brain each. Men and women, both use brain and heart. But a woman uses her heart more often in her personal relationships than a man.

Not being biased here, but I have seen men being more insensitive towards family matters, wherein a woman will take the charge and solve the problems at home. I have seen my colleagues, especially men, bringing their personal worries at work, and discuss them with their colleagues and asking ways to escape it. ‘Dude I have to attend the PTA meeting at my kid’s school…. I am feeling so exhausted already… I wonder if I will ever go.’….. Wherein a woman takes it in her stride, puts that event in her calendar as an important one and makes sure she is there to attend the PTA without any regret of leaving the job on a half days notice!

Today the world has just one slogan…. ‘Live and let die’…. People don’t care what’s going around them. They don’t care who lives and who dies. They want to live alone and because they don’t make good friends they die alone too. I sit at my desk and observe people messaging their colleagues “hi” and “how are you”… and the colleague is sitting right next to them. Why people don’t take a life seriously? Why can’t people just turn around and say a ‘HI’ to their colleagues instead of messaging them? Just questions on my mind because I see this everyday!

Sometimes you don’t find time to call your friends, sometimes when you have time, you don’t have energy left to talk to them….but you miss them just as you would miss breathing the air under water. But still you don’t end up calling your friends or the one you are missing.

The technology has developed, but at the cost of suppressing your feelings and giving a helping hand to your laziness!!!

3 comments:

Rockstar said...

I CARE........ &
ALWAZ WILL....
I may not text u everyday to say this to u.....
I may not cal u up eveytime I miss u..... as I do it all the time....
But turn around & U'll find ME...walking wid u wherever U go....
I'M ALWAZ DERE WID U....FOR U :)

Indifferent Preferences said...

I actually like the "techonology feeding laziness part"... I guess I will always be a techie :). Well written otherwise

Amit Shenoy said...

I once had someone in my life..whom I cared for..with whom I eventually fell in love and wished it would never end...as luck would have it we parted ways..for reasons best known to her..

I wish I had someone to be with.. a true friend.. who'll be with me unconditionally.... thats all! Love to me is secondary..